It's Saturday and I forgot to bring my camera out with me. That means it's another crappy picture day. Hooray!

I started reading this tonight and find it amazing. But, that's because I was raised by a Tiger Mother and to a fairly large degree, I plan on being one. I've spoken to quite a few people about this book and read a fair amount of reviews on it. It seems that a lot of people are very incensed by how horrible and insensitive the "Chinese style" of child rearing is. But I, like the author, still thoroughly enjoyed my childhood.
I wasn't allowed to stop playing piano until I passed the Advanced level (I took lessons from age 4 to 16). I took summer school every year of my life (not the, "I'm doing poorly in school and must take summer classes to make up for it," but the, "You must excel ahead of everyone in your class so you will take summer school to learn more," classes). My parents would never buy me books, but I was allowed endless trips to the library. When I was in kindergarten, I wanted Eric Carle's
The Very Hungry Caterpillar from the school book order. My mom said if I wanted it, I would have to pay for it myself. I was 5. I rarely had Christmas trees and even more rarely even received physical presents on Christmas (real love is shown by monetary gifts). When my second grade teacher was passing out pamphlets on Christmas tree fire safety, I politely told him I didn't need one as we never had Christmas trees. He pulled me aside, extremely concerned, and wanted to contact my parents as if I was an abused child. I never understood what his concern was about until I was much older. I never believed in any of that nonsense about Santa, the Tooth Fairy or the Easter Bunny. I still find it hard to fathom, actually, that children ever did. On top of being raised by immigrant parents, I was the third child. I guess they couldn't be bothered to do that small kid stuff with me, but I don't really mind that much. Most of my toys were my brother's leftover toys (old Lego sets, broken race cars, disembodied Voltron). My few, beloved stuffed animals were all carnival prizes from Las Vegas. Like the children in the book, I was never allowed a grade below an A and very, very rarely received praise for my successes. The first poster I got in my life was when I was in kindergarten. It was the multiplication table.
By the way, I'm not asking for pity. As I stated above, I've actually led a very happy and fulfilling life. My parents have really shown me the world. While I may not have gotten many presents at holidays or new toys as a kid, I've been to China, Japan, Canada, Mexico, France, Italy, England, Switzerland, Germany, all over the US and I'm sure a few other places I've forgotten. I was allowed to take lessons in everything I fancied (art, piano, flute, violin, swimming, tennis, ice skating, bowling, taekwondo). I got to be a Girl Scout (after much whining) and even conned my mom into buying 18 boxes of cookies so I could get a patch (the mother in charge ended up being inept and I never even got my patch, le sigh).
There were definitely times in my life where I cried and cried and wished I could have "normal" parents that would be appreciative of me and tell me, verbally, that they loved me. But, really, I've come to realize that my parents just grew up differently and raised me differently than all the "white kids" around me. My parents loved me just as much and still love and support me just as much. And I'd like to think I'm pretty well-balanced.
I don't really know where I'm going with this post as my attention span has started to peter off, but I guess I'll end it with, you should read this book. I'm biased and I really like it because I very much relate to the author and how she raises her children. I don't think it's a "despicable and cruel" way to raise your children in the least. It's just a different way than the standard "Western style" of parenting. I'm going to go back to reading now because my sentences have stopped making sense.